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Free Spirit, hungry for life

I'm a Sagittarius, so I am brutally honest and have no brain to mouth filter. I hate small talk, prefer to have intellectual stimulation and deep conversation. But enjoy dry dark humour. Im not always serious, I know how to have a good time as well.
I love to write and I read, I am an avid Anne Rice fan. I enjoy watching series. I love food, both enjoy cooking and someone who can cook. I have a serious thing about smells, I detest bad bodily odour and think that there is nothing more exquisite than a woman who takes care of herself and has a lingering fragrance/scent.
I'm kind of... Weird. I enjoy weird, a little bit awkward.
My favourite bands are (in this order) the Pixies, the Smashing Pumpkins, In Flames and A Perfect Circle.
Ideally would love to meet my dark deity, but I am a sceptic and don't believe in dating sites. Would be happy to settle for stimulating conversation, friendship is always a bonus.
Quite spiritual and will probably either mention vibrational energy or speak about star signs. If that's not your thing, you probably shouldn't chat to me. But I am open to new perspectives and don't mind agreeing to disagree.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageSouth African
Height170 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Strategically placed tattoo, Visible tattoo
Health ConditionAddiction recovery
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDocumentaries, Dramas, Situation comedies, Movies
Favorite movies typesScience fiction, Comedy, Drama, Thriller
Music typesRock, Metal, Soul, Reggae
Favorite artistsThe Pixies
The Smashing Pumpkins
A Perfect Circle
In Flames
Lacuna Coil
Reading selectionFantasy, Fiction, Horror, Mystery, Poetry, Science fiction
Favorite booksAnne Rice's Vampire Chronicles
Idea of funI'm a home body, enjoy watching series, good food and in my own time I write.
I also enjoy spending time with close friends.
Music festivals, seeing live gigs.
Bonfire, drummers circle, camping is my ideal.
Don't ever ask me to watch sports.
HobbiesExercising, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Dining, Religion, spirituality, Theater, Travel, Camping, Volunteering


SmokerSmoke heavily (10+ a day)
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Outcast
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeHanging out with friends, Trying new things, Relaxing, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryNever been on a hot air balloon... Think it would be an amazing view!
I've also never been on a boat by the ocean.
Would love to do archery.


Political viewsI don't like politics
Attend religious servicesOnce a week
Goal in lifeI'm strong about my convictions and believe in equality. I would like to be an advocate for human rights on any flatform. I do volunteer work and would like to be more involved in helping others.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerI'm not sure if I am even looking to be honest with you...
I would like to meet someone who shares my moral compass, my passion and hunger for life.
I have come out of years of hurt and attracting toxic people, so I definitely do NOT need someone who allows their baggage to consume them.
We should help one another grow... Mentally, spiritually, physically. Stimulate me intellectually, open my mind to new perspectives.
I absolutely detest lies! Be honest no matter what, we all make mistakes, we all have a past and I will never judge someone for that. Lie to me and I will walk away, no questions asked.
I am a free spirit, so I need my space. Call me out on my bullshit, show me that you care. But dont think that I am a possession... I will run very far away. I'm loyal, honest, willing to share everything with someone I have the right connection with and I expect the same. But needy, clingy and possessive is down right a turn off.
Physically, I prefer short girls because I am 1.7 or around my height. I am a sucker for a lady, carry herself with grace, elegance, poise... Doesn't have to be a model and I hate superficial girls! I love a woman with confidence, who knows what she wants and just takes care of herself, doesn't mind expressing herself and owning her womanhood. Also perfume drives me crazy.
I'm actually really just looking for a friend, laugh and enjoy each others company. Call each other out on bullshit. Loyal as ****. Stands up for each other.
I'm simple.
On the first dateDepends on the person... I can be a gentleman and do the collared shirt, smart shoes, fancy dinner. But that's so cliche. I am spontaneous and I pick up on vibes, so it depends.
Sexually I definitely won't have sex on a first date. I am terrified of Std's and in no way will I ever judge someone on that.

Excercising Preferences

ExcercisesJogging, Walking